How to Overcome Self Criticism and Negative Self Talk Self criticism is the ultimate punishment to your self-esteem. When you become more aware of your own internal self talk you may notice that it’s often negative and unpleasant much of the time. If you are constantly criticising yourself in your mind, you will feel pulled down by negativity…
5 Tips for Instant Confidence “The beauty you see in me is a reflection of you” ~ Rumi Most of us want a little more confidence whether it’s inviting someone out on date, selling a service or product or plucking up the courage to ask for a well deserved pay rise. But some people have…
How to be More Happy in Your Mind As the seasons transform, this time of year encourages us to reflect on all that we have achieved within the year so far. The good times and the more challenging times have all served us in some way, even though we may not be able to see…
20 Self-Esteem Boosting Tips to Uplift Mood and Build Confidence As we wander through our individual life, we come up against many relationships (professional or personal) who have an important impact on us. The way we process other people’s behaviour towards us makes us who we are today and affects our self-esteem and self-worth. Have…
6 Reasons Why You Should Love Your Negative Thoughts Having suffered depression in my early adulthood I know how it feels to be bombarded with negative thoughts and feelings. As I got even more caught up in this web of despair I noticed that my negative thoughts were often related to situations that were going…
Re-Train your Brain to Think More Positively Often we associate all the things outside of ourselves as a doorway to our happiness. We are surrounded by expensive and materialistic objects and possessions. We are enticed by delicious foods and can associate eating with pleasure. Alcohol, drugs and smoking help us through the good times and…
Robert Dilts – The Secret to Authentic Success is Down to These Two Things.. Fulfilment and success is something that we have all felt at some point in our life. It comes from a place deep within our being, but many of us feel its absence, perhaps almost too frequently. And as a result we…
How to Boost Your Self Esteem and Self Confidence Self respect means coming from your power, not your weakness. It means owning your decisions and standing by what you believe in, even if others do not agree. The story of the Ugly Duckling is about a little new born duck singled out by his peers…
Life is here for us to experience, to learn, to grow – you can learn how to be positive! “The best thing about the past is that it’s over. The best thing about the future is that it’s yet to come. The best thing about the present is that it’s here now.” – Richard Bandler…
What kind of information do you like to fill your mind with? Do you find yourself constantly reading cheap or free newspapers only to find there is a terrible story in it that upsets you? Or perhaps you get caught up in other people’s opinions and conversations and find yourself agreeing to things that you…